GRAB, Joan M. (McCabe) Of Southbury, CT, formerly of Irvington, NY, March 14, 2015. Beloved wife of the late Robert H. Grab. Loving mother of Robert L. Grab and his wife Robin of Tampa, FL and Barbara G. Connors and her husband John of Lexington. Cherished grandmother of Kendra, Brad and Jackson Connors. Dear sister of Howard McCabe and his wife Nancy of Cocoa Beach, FL, Robert McCabe and his wife Marcia of Fairhaven, MA, and Thomas McCabe and his wife Carol of Far Hills, NJ. Also survived by many nieces and nephews. Services and interment will be held at a later time in New York. Arrangements under the direction of the Douglass Funeral Home, LEXINGTON, MA.